No, it isn't a guy thing. It's a battle thing. Has nothing to do with gender. I can tell you this: That echo chamber inside your head, where everything keeps repeating over and over, and while you keep reliving the nightmare you keep asking what you could have done differently--what you should have done differently... It just keeps getting louder and more awful until you let it out and let something different in.

You're far from the only one here with scars and demons.